It’s no secret that the internet has revolutionized the way we can access information. At the click of a button, you can be transported across the web; but unbeknownst to you, that can leave a trail of data, or digital footprints, everywhere you go.
Computers, and other smart devices, can be susceptible to cyber attacks; and if you’re not careful, hackers can get access to your personal information and confidential data.
With kids joining social media and browsing the web at an early age, it’s critical that parents discuss the importance of online safety
In this article we go over our guide to internet safety for children.
Should I Monitor My Child’s Internet Activity?
How Can I Monitor My Child’s Internet Activity?
Avoiding Inappropriate Content Online
What Are Some Internet Safety Tips for Kids?
Should I Monitor My Child’s Internet Activity?
With access to the internet seemingly everywhere, it can be hard to monitor your child’s internet activity. However, you may be asking yourself if that is something you should be doing. When deciding if you should monitor your child’s internet activity you should consider the age of your child and understand their current online presence.
If they are young and/or online for much of their day, if you chose to monitor their internet activities, it’s important that you explain to them why you are doing so. Have an open and honest conversation with them about the potential dangers online.
While no amount of monitoring can protect kids from everything, having these open conversations with your child is a good first step to ensure they have a better understanding of potential threats found online.
How Can I Monitor My Child’s Internet Activity?
If you feel it’s important to monitor their online activity, there are a few ways to do so.
Use a parental control app
If you’re unfamiliar, parental control apps are features which may be included in digital television services, computers, video games, mobile devices, and software that allow parents to monitor, filter, limit, and block what your child sees and does online.
If this is something you find useful for your household, then this TechRadar.ca article will provide you a list of apps to compare and contrast to help you decide.
Manually check your child’s web history
Before parental control apps, if you wanted to see what your child was up to, you’d go on the computer and access their web history. While this may have been the case in households with a shared computer, if your child has their own device, consider allowing them to be online for a set amount of time per day.
If you see something inappropriate or concerning when checking in on their activity, rather than chastising your child, be sure to have a conversation about what they’ve seen and encourage them to come to you if they have any questions.
While it’s important to be aware of your child’s activity online, you still want to establish trust. It’s important that you don’t shame them, be open and honest with your actions, and going over best practices to ensure that they remain safe online.
Avoiding Inappropriate Content Online
The short answer is that it’s hard to avoid inappropriate content online. Some platforms, like Google Chrome, have SafeSearch settings designed to detect explicit content like pornography and graphic violence in search results and block them.
While you may want to shield your child from inappropriate content online, it’s still important to discuss the type of content they may encounter. For example, edited or filtered images and videos, fake news, hoaxes and misinformation, promotion of self-harm, suicide and eating disorders, and violent or distressing content, are the types of content they can encounter.
This U.K.-based children’s charity provides further insights on the how to have these conversations with young children about these topics.
What Are Some Internet Safety Tips for Kids?
The Good Hands Advice team spoke with Allstate Canada’s Cybersecurity team to help parents learn how they can speak to their kids about internet safety.
Inform Your Child of Potential Cyber Threats
Some parents may shy away from having difficult conversations with their kids, but when it comes to internet safety it is important that you inform them of potential threats.
Make it a regular practice to discuss the current apps, technologies, social media sites, and websites your kids use and how they can spot potential threats – including phishing and malware attacks.
Foster a safe and welcoming space by involving your kids in establishing rules and boundaries for how their devices and the internet will be used to stay secure.
When it comes to staying cybersecure, prevention is always better than the cure, and the first step starts with a conversation.
Spend Time Teaching Your Children to Identify Suspicious Messages.
Once they have a basic understanding of what a cyber attack may look like, it’s time to teach them how to identify suspicious behaviours. Train your kids to be cautious and think before they click. Cyber criminals continue to imitate legitimate institutions to trick people into sharing confidential or sensitive information for one reason – it works.
Spend time teaching your kids to identify suspicious messages that have:
- Spelling or grammar errors;
- A sense of urgency to avoid a negative outcome or;
- Requests to click a link and provide personal information such as their account username and passwords.
Remember, just because something may appear legitimate, doesn’t mean that it is. Be sure to have them take a few extra minutes before clicking on anything to identify if the message is coming from a trusted source.
The Canadian government has identified the seven red flags of phishing.
Discuss How They Can Protect Their Digital Footprint
As mentioned earlier, when you’re online, you leave your digital footprints everywhere. Your digital footprint tracks, stores, and records every digital “move” you make online and shapes your digital identity.
Children and teenagers may think it’s safe to share personal data like their address, school, vacation plans, or daily routines online. However, cyber criminals can leverage this information to launch cyber attacks. Oversharing on social media can also have adverse effects to your home as well.
Our Cybersecurity team recommends helping your kids stay protected by:
- Discussing personal information (e.g., phone numbers and email addresses) that should be kept offline;
- Using privacy settings on devices and apps;
- Creating usernames and pseudonyms that keep their personal identity private;
- Using strong, hard-to-guess, passwords that use a mix of numbers, letters, and symbols when possible; and
- Establish boundaries with parental controls using Google’s Family Link
Teach Them to Only Download Apps from Secure Sources
Downloading things you find online can be easy, but be careful where you get them from. If you use untrustworthy sources, your device and data could be at risk.
Everything from editing software to game apps can potentially make you vulnerable to attacks if it’s not coming from a reliable source. Encourage your kids to only use Google Play or the Apple App Store, and teach them to always review the privacy settings with you before downloading.
Inform Them of the Importance of Having the Most Up to Date Software
Software updates are designed to do more than add new, cool features – they also fix vulnerabilities that may leave data and personal information susceptible to cyber attacks.
Many devices allow you to turn on automatic software updates for the operating system, security protection and apps. It’s a great way to add an extra layer of protection for your kids. For apps that don’t offer automatic updates, always remember to complete the updates as soon as you’re prompted.
Although the internet is amazing for learning, fun and entertainment, as kids participate in online activities, it’s important to ensure they’re protected.
Get the conversation started today! Having regular discussions about cyber security will give you insight into how they’re exploring the internet, while letting them know you’re a safe space they can go to for support.
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